Hey friend,

So, your first week of running your in-home daycare is here! First of all, congratulations—you’re stepping into a journey that’s incredibly rewarding, fulfilling, and life-changing.

But let’s be real—it’s also overwhelming!

Your first week is filled with excitement, nervousness, and a whole lot of adjusting (for both you and the kids!). You might be wondering:
✔️ Will the kids settle in?
✔️ Will parents trust me?
✔️ What if I forget something important?
✔️ How do I manage all the moving parts without feeling exhausted?

Take a deep breath—you’ve got this! With the right mindset and preparation, you can turn your first week into a smooth and successful start to your daycare journey.

Let’s dive into the best tips for surviving (and thriving) in your first week as a home daycare provider!


Step 1: Start Each Day with a Clear Plan

💡 Why This Matters:
A structured day = less stress, fewer meltdowns, and a smoother routine for both you and the kids.

✅ How to Create a Stress-Free Daily Schedule:

✔️ Keep it simple—focus on structured play, meals, naps, and a mix of free and guided activities.
✔️ Post a visual schedule with pictures so kids can follow along.
✔️ Build in transition time—young kids need extra time between activities.
✔️ Be flexible—some kids may struggle to adjust, and that’s okay!

📌 Pro Tip: Plan your first 3 days ahead of time so you’re not scrambling in the moment!


Step 2: Welcome Kids with Warmth & Confidence

💡 Why This Matters:
The first drop-off sets the tone for the day. A smooth, comforting welcome helps kids feel safe.

✅ How to Create a Stress-Free Drop-Off:

✔️ Greet each child by name—make them feel special!
✔️ Have a fun activity ready—stickers, playdough, or coloring to keep them engaged.
✔️ Reassure parents—a quick, “They’re in great hands! I’ll update you later,” helps ease parent anxiety.
✔️ Encourage a confident goodbye—short and sweet works best!

📌 Fact: Kids often mirror parent emotions—if parents are calm and confident, drop-offs are easier!


Step 3: Establish Rules & Expectations Early

💡 Why This Matters:
Clear expectations = fewer behavior problems down the road. Kids do best when they know what’s expected and what to expect.

✅ How to Set Rules That Work:

✔️ Keep rules short and simple (e.g., “Be kind,” “Use gentle hands,” “Listen to the teacher”).
✔️ Use visual cues—post pictures of expected behaviors.
✔️ Model rules—show them what “gentle hands” or “inside voices” look like.
✔️ Praise positive behavior—catch them being good! “I love how you shared that toy!”

📌 Pro Tip: Go over the rules every morning in a fun way—like a song or story!


Step 4: Keep Activities Engaging (But Not Overwhelming!)

💡 Why This Matters:
Overstimulated kids = chaos. Bored kids = mischief. The right balance keeps everyone happy!

✅ How to Plan Easy & Fun Activities:

✔️ Mix structured and free play—some guided activities, some open-ended playtime.
✔️ Rotate toys—introduce new ones gradually instead of all at once.
✔️ Have backup activities for when things don’t go as planned (like extra storybooks or a simple dance party).
✔️ Keep it short—young kids have short attention spans! 10-15 minute activities work best.

📌 Pro Tip: Sensory play (water bins, playdough, rice bins) works WONDERS for keeping kids engaged and calm.


Step 5: Master Mealtime & Naps (Without Stress!)

💡 Why This Matters:
Hungry or overtired kids = cranky kids. Getting meals and naps right is key!

✅ How to Make Meal & Nap Time Easier:

✔️ Pre-prep meals & snacks so you’re not scrambling at the last minute.
✔️ Stick to a set routine—same nap time daily helps kids adjust.
✔️ Use calming techniques before nap—dim lights, play soft music, and read a story.
✔️ Give kids choices—offer two snack options to avoid mealtime battles.

📌 Pro Tip: If a child resists napping, offer “quiet time” instead with books and cozy blankets!


Step 6: Keep Parents in the Loop

💡 Why This Matters:
Happy parents = long-term enrollments and great word-of-mouth referrals!

✅ How to Build Parent Trust Right Away:

✔️ Send a quick update & photo—nothing fancy, just a “Liam had so much fun painting today!” message.
✔️ Have a simple daily report (digital or paper) with meal, nap, and mood updates.
✔️ Be available for questions—a short chat at pick-up reassures parents.
✔️ Share successes, not just problems—parents love hearing the good stuff too!

📌 Fact: 78% of parents say regular updates make them feel more confident in their daycare choice.


Step 7: End Each Day on a Positive Note

💡 Why This Matters:
Ending the day on a high note makes kids excited to come back!

✅ How to Create a Smooth Pick-Up Routine:

✔️ Have kids ready with their belongings packed.
✔️ Give a quick, positive summary—”Emma loved playing with the sensory bin today!”
✔️ Encourage kids to say goodbye—it helps with transition.
✔️ Leave your daycare in a clean state so you start fresh the next morning!

📌 Pro Tip: A fun “goodbye song” can make pick-ups smoother and less chaotic!


Step 8: Take Care of YOU (Avoid Burnout!)

💡 Why This Matters:
You can’t take care of kids if you’re running on empty. Your first week is BUSY, but don’t forget about your own well-being too!

✅ How to Take Care of Yourself While Running a Daycare:

✔️ Set boundaries—no answering texts from parents at 10 PM!
✔️ Prep as much as you can the night before to avoid morning stress.
✔️ Take a few deep breaths between transitions—even 30 seconds helps.
✔️ Celebrate small wins—each day gets easier!

📌 Fact: Daycare providers who practice self-care and set boundaries experience 50% lower burnout rates!


Final Thoughts: Your First Week is Just the Beginning!

Friend, your first week as a home daycare provider will be a whirlwind—but it will also be filled with so many joyful moments!

You’re creating a safe, loving, and fun environment where kids will grow, learn, and thrive. Yes, there will be challenges, but with structure, patience, and confidence, you WILL succeed.

Quick Recap: First Week Survival Tips

✔️ Start each day with a clear plan.
✔️ Welcome kids with warmth & confidence.
✔️ Set clear rules & expectations from day one.
✔️ Keep activities simple & engaging.
✔️ Master mealtime & naps to prevent meltdowns.
✔️ Keep parents updated & involved.
✔️ End each day on a positive note.
✔️ Take care of YOURSELF too!

You’re doing something incredible, and I’m so excited for you. Now go make this first week amazing! 🎉


What’s Next? Let’s Support Each Other!

🚀 Download My Free First Week Survival Checklist (Coming Soon).
🚀 Join My Facebook Group for Home Daycare Owners (Coming Soon).

Now go rock your first week—you’ve got this! 😊


Let’s Chat!

What are you most excited (or nervous) about for your first week? Drop a comment—I’d love to hear! 💬💛

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I’m Stacey

Welcome! I’m passionate about helping families and educators navigate daycare, preschool, and homeschool. As a momprenuer, wife, and travel enthusiast, I also share family-friendly destinations, event guides, self-care tips, and planning advice to make life easier. Looking for fun activities or ways to explore the world with kids stress free? You’re in the right place! Let’s create, learn, and grow together!

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